“Let your child experience you not as angry, defensive or even offensive. Let your child experience you as untouched by the nasty comments or innuendo because if it is untrue, there is nothing to defend against and you move on.”
Since you’re reading this blog, I’ll assume you have a difficult person in your life; someone who blows up at little things, puts words in your mouth and plays the role of a professional victim. I’m not referring to ax murderers, although they are certainly bad. I’m talking about people we call HCP’s (High Conflict People). They are expert at blaming you for their problems and frustrate you to no end with their aggressive behavior. The key to dealing with it is to understand it, so read on.