For Individuals

HCI offers solutions that anyone can use. It only takes one person to impact a high-conflict situation, and that person can be you.

Transformational Impact

We teach the skills you need when managing a high-conflict situation. Whether it’s at home, school, business, place of worship, in the courtroom, or online, we provide support and guidance to find your missing peace.


Our menu of solutions provides flexibility to everyone. From one-on-one consultations to group coaching, we will help you overcome your high-conflict situation and bring your life back into alignment.

New Ways

This revolutionary method blends on-demand classes with regularly occurring virtual sessions.

Live Lab

This practice workshop has you learn from a High Conflict Institute coach during a live virtual session.


Our on-demand continuing education opportunities offer 1-3 hour courses to increase your ability to deal with high conflict.


Our one-on-one consultation with an HCI expert is for when you have a high conflict dilemma.

Popular Courses

Which HCI classes do customers love the most? Check out our most popular courses.

Writing for Court: 10 Tips for Persuading Decision Makers

High conflict people are attracted to court and may emotionally sway the court with false or misleading information about you.
The way you write can make a big difference in your case. This course provides ten tips for writing documents so that decision-makers will get a focused understanding of the case. You will gain an understanding that judges have thousands of cases that are similar & have limited time and attention; they very quickly decide how minor or major your case is; and often have an unconscious bias that allegations of abuse are mostly true; or allegations of abuse are mostly false; or both parties are equal contributors to any problems.
Length: 1 hour

Who Are High Conflict People?

This course provides you tools to use to deal successfully with high conflict people in most cases.

A Greater Understanding of ‘Who Are High Conflict People?’ and what makes them tick. Helping you deal with their predictable high conflict behavior in and out of court.

The Brain 101: How to Communicate Effectively with Anyone

Discover an understanding as to what clients may be capable of or incapable of, and what lawyers should do and shouldn’t do to effectively communicate with their clients’ brain.

This course addresses several different aspects of brain science that impact on lawyers and their work with their clients, family members, opposing counsel and others. The purpose is to understand what clients may be capable of or incapable of, and what lawyers should do and shouldn’t do to effectively communicate with their clients’ brains. This course explains six different parts of the brain and two coaching styles that inspire defensiveness or openness to change and creativity.

Popular Resources

Here are the blogs and podcast episodes that everyone is talking about.

Bringing It to Life #6: Understanding Borderline Personality Disorder Part Two with Guest Amanda Smith

In part 2 of Bringing It to Life #6, Amanda Smith shares insights on…

Bringing It to Life #6: Understanding Borderline Personality Disorder Part One with Guest Amanda Smith

Explore BPD with expert Amanda Smith: intense emotions, impulsive behaviors, and the power of…

Bringing It to Life #5: Navigating Money and Corporate Complexities in High Conflict Divorces with Guest Kate Merrill

Uncover hidden assets in high conflict divorces with guest expert Kate Merrill. Another Bringing…

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